Lovely Morning

今天的心情真好。=) switched on my comp after i woke up todae...........straightaway went to ting's blog to listen to her nice blog song tt i dun think i'll get sick of. By the way, miss 没良心 went for a big treat yesterday w/o me and posted a photo of her ice-cream FONDUE on her blog to make me more sian diao. *patpat*

昨晚 chatted wif jingwen for 2hrs at least i guess -----------made me veri happie. 我们很志同道合, chatted to e extent that we were both relunctant to put down our phones. Promised her i'll chat wif her again. =)

Happiness

i feel that happiness takes a lot of forms.............................................it can come from anywhere n everywhere. It can come from deep down within us but tt's not easy unless we realli make a firm decision to become happie as well as stay happie. It can come from other pathways also, like going out wif someone nice or eating something u like, etc etc. One of the veri unique n special ways to feel happie is to noe tt u haf made special people around u happie. Do u guys concur? i was happie yesterday cause i taught yuanli how to add a tagboard to his blog n he in turn taught shuping how to do it too. I'm so glad to haf helped them n make their day brighter for them.

That leaves me to ponder abt the word "happiness, 幸福" n wat it realli means. Its can be defined as a want i think, the most important human mental want, far stronger than the craving to be appreciated as mentioned in my earlier entry. i realised that people who r unable to find true happiness often make e same mistakes, horrifingly enough. They seem to think that happiness is a destination. A place in time where they haf achieved wat they wan n then they'll breathe easy n tell themselves: "At last, i'm happie." they will never find happiness, not surprisingly..........

Happiness is a decision, a decision that will stay wif us throughout the journey of our lives. If one says this to himself/herself: "i'll be happie from this moment on." note e effect that this has on our immediate mood. If u can't feel it, its because u haven't not made a strong enough conviction within urself. Try again, the rewards are boundless i assure u.

Nature is a magnificent phenomenon, it has never failed to amaze me time n time again. Cause it has given us two routes to finding our true happiness..............................................

1) u decide to be happie = u will find ur own happiness
2) u become tired of being miserable = u decide to be realli happie = u find ur own happiness.

As we can see from here, we can choose the fast, shortcut path by choosing option 1. but if u cannot convince urself that option 1 is the one for u, u can take option 2 which will eventually lead to the same outcome. But u muz be prepared to face more misery, loneliness, heartbreak and suffering. N the best part is even if that happens, u might take a long time to reach the decision to be realli happie. Some people reach there when they are 70 odd years old some reach there at 16 years old.

For me by the end of my jc life, i was realli sick n tired of being miserable so i made up my mind to be realli happie. This decision has helped me a lot since then even though sometimes its as difficult as maintaining a nice home. U've got to keep the nice stuff n throw out e garbage to be happie.
i'm contented now cause i'm happie honestly........ though sometimes i'll be a bit sad n down but majority of e time i'm happie. =)
ting makes a good role model, she's happie 98% of e time n i love her for tt. *hugz*