Monday, March 28, 2005

some deep thought

the time now is 1040pm. listening to the veriveri nice song that yuanli sent me juz now called 依然是朋友。i love songs like tt - soothing melody, sad lyrics, lovely piano tune accompanyin softly. 听着听着,我的感触好多啊. happie mood also n with a clear mind(cause i juz bathed) so decided to blog down my thoughts to share wif u guys. =)

Reflecting on the things i did for the past few weeks todae.....suddenly felt veri guilty. Cause i feel that 我所做的事没有替别人着想。oh nono, i dun mean 我做了伤天害理的事 but rather when i did those things i was not thinking of how other people might haf felt abt my actions. Todae was the first day i thought of how they might haf felt abt e things i did. felt as if i've been bolted by lightning, struck by my lack of thoughtfulness to think from other ppl's point of view.

i guess everyone has their times of selfishness and lack of thoughfulness.................. let us remind ourselves that we can strengthen our characters by looking at things from other people's perspective n wat we can do to show that we spare a thought for their feelings. wat we can do to avoid hurting their feelings.

Confucius said, "What u would not want done to urself, do not do to others."

this is a wonderful quote, 一针见血的感觉. 刺破了我的良心。dun worry guys, i'm not feeling upset or wat rather i'm feeling happie cause i've finally managed to set my mind to being thoughtful for others. i shall not do onto others wat i dun wan done on myself. simple as that. how do u guys think? i'm sure at certain periods of our lives, we are gulity of doing those things that we dun like to be done onto us.

From this moment onwards, i shall set forth a renewed determination to spare a thought for e feelings of other ppl. set my path straight once again...................... hope u guys share my sentiments. =) another happie blog entry.

"Do unto others as u would have others do unto you" quoted from the Bible =)


2 comments:

Anonymous said...

it's always nice to think in this light.

hopefully your determination to try changing will not only be confined to this entry. :)

xingyou said...

its a daily effort i guess. will work hard everyday to accomplish wat i'm determined to do. will be tough but i'll do my best =) 'nothing was built in one day'

thx for ur advice!